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Subjects that interest and excite me - related to coaching and so much more


Holding the Tension of the Opposites
Carl Jung believed that becoming aware of the Shadow and accepting it as an integral part of us is essential to becoming whole individuals.
Mar 21


Empathy
Empathy is essential to having strong, meaningful relationships, and empathy skills can be learned.
Feb 21


True Fun
What I've learned about True Fun and how to attract more of it into my life!
Jan 24


A Serious Error
The cognitive bias that harms relationships and how to overcome it
Dec 20, 2024


How to Disagree Respectfully
November’s post is a continuation of the month’s theme of respectful disagreement . In the last newsletter I gave some points for...
Nov 22, 2024


Making Your Life Sacred
Among the several dictionary definitions of sacred are “dedicated or set apart for the service or worship of a deity” and “worthy of...
Oct 25, 2024


Questioning Unhealthy Stories
Stories are how humans make sense, or meaning, of things that happen, how the world is, and how we should behave. We are immersed in...
Sep 26, 2024


Midlife Crisis or Opportunity? Part 2
Last month I wrote about the specific challenges of midlife and explained that the anxiety, confusion, depression and other uncomfortable...
Aug 29, 2024


Midlife Crisis or Midlife Opportunity?
The term “midlife crisis” has many negative (or humorous) connotations, so please allow me to define what it means in my work: it’s the...
Jul 23, 2024


Stress & Mental Fitness
Mental fitness skills can effectively combat the negative effects of chronic stress
May 24, 2024


Healthy Friendships Part 2 - Tips
To follow up on my last blog post about healthy friendships (3/15/24) I’d like to share some thoughts and suggestions for practical ways...
Apr 5, 2024


Healthy Friendships
Knowing and interacting with lots of people, in person and online, gives the appearance that we’re very connected. Yet most of us do not...
Mar 15, 2024

Should Individualism And Independence Be Our Ideals?
Many recent studies show that meaning, rather than happiness, is essential to a fulfilling life. We don’t really need science to show us...
Jan 31, 2024


The Longing for Deep Connection
Do you notice that some conversations and interactions feel rich and satisfying, and others are uninspiring and forgettable? It doesn’t...
Jan 4, 2024

Quiet Desperation
“The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation.” Replace “men” with “adult humans” and these words seem truer today than when written...
Oct 19, 2023


On Being Seen and Heard
Hello, friends. I want to share some things I've been learning and contemplating lately as I develop a new workshop on Belonging -...
Sep 18, 2023


Managing The Desire To Control
As I am currently navigating several major life changes (listing my house for sale, closing my surgical practice of 25+ years, and...
Feb 27, 2023
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